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Maybe it’s happened again. Just when you thought you were done with attracting yet another guy with commitment issues, you’ve found yourself once again dating an incredible guy that has all the wonderful potential, if only he would commit! In this video I’m going to share 3 signs he is emotionally unavailable and can’t date you right now.

When I was still dating, I ran into this issue a lot where I’d fall (hard) for a man who was emotionally unavailable in the long run, but I never seemed to be able to spot it at first.

It can be such a difficult pattern to break when we’re attracting men who are all wrong for us, until we uncover the root cause of why we are finding guys like this so attractive in the first place. We can keep hanging on for so long, believing that it will be different this time, that we finally know what we’re doing.

The problem with dating a man who is emotionally unavailable, is that you really will want to see all of his potential, and when down the road he won’t and can’t commit, you end up blaming it on yourself.

You may ask yourself:

Why aren’t I enough for him?

What’s wrong with me?

Why can’t I make him happy?

I want to save you from that heartache. Because the truth is that it’s really not you at all. If he only could commit, he probably would choose you, as you may be the closest thing to happiness and connection that he desires.

I’ve now realized that there are a few red flags that you can usually spot in the first couple of dates.

3 Signs He Is Emotionally Unavailable and Can’t Date You Right Now:

Once you’ve had a chance to watch, I’d love to know:

Have you ever gotten caught up with a man who is emotionally unavailable and was never ready for commitment? What advice would you give to someone in that situation?

Remember that there is nothing wrong with you. There is the right man out there for you who is just waiting to commit in the way that you are capable of committing to him.

If you have friends, clients or colleagues that get caught in negative dating patterns, please share this post. Thank you so much for watching and joining the conversation.

With so much love,

XO

A.