If you want to attract a high quality man, it is absolutely essential that you learn to have boundaries. In this video I’m going to talk about having boundaries and how to be a high value woman in a relationship.
It is required to have boundaries because that’s how you show up to him, as a high value woman, and this is crucial.
When a woman has clear boundaries, it sends a clear message, that she is a woman who knows her worth and who respects herself.
She knows what she wants and isn’t going to pretzel herself into the “cool girl” where men can walk all over her. Being the “cool girl” can be death to a new relationship! He’ll quickly put you into the category as someone who he can text late on a Friday night to Netflix and chill, and you’ll come right over.
Now I’m not blaming you as I have certainly done this in the past myself. I wanted to be understanding, and, I desperately wanted to spend time with him. However, I quickly learned and now help clients to learn that having boundaries is key if you want the relationship to take off.
It also lets men know that you’re serious about being treated well, so this is definitely a crucial way to vet men out who are wrong for you who won’t be able to give you what you want and need, and who aren’t serious about dating you.
It’s a way of calling forth high quality potentials of men you can create epic, long lasting men with.
How To Be A High Value Woman In A Relationship:
It’s definitely a skill, and one that many women have to work hard at to create boundaries. If you’re always seeking to be liked, a people pleaser, or afraid of conflict, it will be harder, but it’s still totally possible.
Now I’d love to hear from you.
In the comments below, tell me about a time when you pretzeled yourself (No, I don’t mean like that!) for a man and it backfired on you. And if you’d like, tell me about how you’re going to set clear boundaries when dating.
Remember, share as much detail as possible in your reply. Hundreds of incredible souls come here each week for insight and inspiration and your observation may help someone else have a meaningful breakthrough.
One thing that men love is a woman who has her own life. And having your own life will make you feel more confident about setting boundaries. You’re with it my beautiful friend.
Lots of love,