Most of my clients are women in their 30s who are beginning to think it’s impossible to find love. They have thriving social lives, successful careers, and poised demeanor’s, but have been to so many bridal and baby showers that they’ve started to think, “What’s wrong with me, will I ever find love?” Then watch this video if you think it’s impossible to find love in your 30s.
I created a brand new video for you today about really being aware of the limiting beliefs you hold around men, dating, and if finding love is actually something that’s within your realm of possibility.
Because I speak to literally hundreds of women, and some men, I hear all kinds of reasons why they won’t find love.
Some blame it on dating apps, or because they’re too old, or too career driven, weigh too much, not pretty enough, all men are immature — I hear everything.
Personally, I used to tell myself the story that I must have lost my one and only good chance at finding real love, and that I’d never have that feeling with anyone again.
The story felt very true to me. I mean this is my life, so how could it not be true?
What I didn’t realize at the time was that I was choosing to tell myself a certain version of the story — a version that was blocking me from finding new love.
But here’s the thing, wherever you are in life right now, and whatever reasons or beliefs you are holding onto about thinking it’s impossible to find love in your 30s, you have to let them go.
In this video I’m going to show you how.
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After you’ve watched this episode, tell me:
What are some of the main reasons you’re telling yourself now, or have told yourself in the past, as to why you can’t have a meaningful relationship?
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I don’t think it’s impossible. I know I am going to miss my most valuable unconditional love. He is not believing me now. He thinks I am Lying. He knows I never but today the situation makes him think like that. All the time same thing happens. Whatever I write he misunderstand I can’t help. Last time he said don’t my room. This time he is telling me I need action. This time he planned a surprise trip when I am busy with children exams. I swear I thought some other important person would engage him . After that only I realised he was expecting me. Big drama happened. I was in confused stat.
Now his mind is full of thought I rejected him. I can’t bear this. How can I rejected him for which I am longing for throughout my life. I am unaware. May be I am not ready because i made up my mind for love failure. I always wanted him to be happy but I can’t bear that I am the reason for his unhappiness. Yeah I added one more sentence by making him feel I am fully towards my own family by giving least importance to him. Sorry for that and actually I didn’t mean it. My intention is you should be there in my whole time till my death or I should take care of you when you grow old. Now also I clearly say if you are not there in my life I can’t imagine my life. Plz dear forgive me for my mistakes. Plz don’t misunderstand me. I am not acting I am not narcist. I won’t lie. But I need some time for union. Because I have to earn some money. As you I think (I know you ‘ll not think about me like that ) I am not greedy for the property because I know in 5 years or more I’ll be having money. And I know nothing is important for me more than you. And I see you down this time. He is not believing me and i want to unite with him .to my pity the situation is against me. Oh lord plz convey this message without any fault into my dear’s mind.