I'm writing this post with a lot of love for women who are nursing a hurting heart. Unless you married your high school sweetheart who you met when you were 14 (I know a few people who fall into this category, and part of me is envious of you) you probably at one point have gone through love and loss, been broken up with, ended a relationship, or feared you will never find ...
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I talk a lot about self-love in this blog and community, and a question I get asked often is, "do I have to love myself before I can be in a loving relationship?" I have had clients who are incredibly self-aware, working on self-love, feeling doubtful that they'll ever enter in to the loving relationship they truly want. And they've heard in the self-help world that in order to attract and manifest ...
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Do you ever wonder why some relationships fail while others are totally rocking it? I know that I have for a long time. And still do. Now that I'm married, this quest seems more compelling than ever. Having been through the divorce of my parents and many of those around me, this question has burned in my mind. So, I sought answers from the relationships of my friends and clients, extensive research and ...
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This continues to be my most watched video, with nearly 20,000 views. I created it for any woman who feels disheartened, dis-empowered, or unworthy when a guy she's dating doesn't respond to her. Get your power back with this video on what to do if he doesn't text. https://youtu.be/LtYYAE3Tst8 Your turn… I would love to hear from YOU. Have you been in a position where you haven't heard back from a guy? What ...
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I have spent many holidays single. I put a ton of pressure on the holidays because it seemed that all around me people were in beautiful relationships, being showered with love. Everyone except for me. All of those Hallmark cards, flower bouquets in the grocery store, and little chocolate hearts shower us with messages of what our relationships should look like. And should is one of the most unacceptable words in the English ...
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I know how it feels to overthink everything. I'm a thinker. I like reason and rationality. I like weighing the pros and cons. In truth, when making a decision (seriously, anything from what flavor ice cream to eat to if my husband was the right person to marry) all that thinking got me nowhere. I usually ended up feeling more confused, worried and afraid of making the wrong choice. The key piece that ...
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Phew, what a whirlwind this past two weeks have been! My husband and I just relocated from Boston, MA to Portland, OR after packing up our apartment, finding a new home and getting our two large dogs on a plane. At 33 weeks pregnant. While I was flying somewhere over Michigan and flipping through the Delta magazine, I saw an ad for NY Times Best Selling Author Alan Fox's latest book: People Tools ...
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I’ve been blessed in my life to have had great relationships. I’ve also had some…let’s say….less than great relationships. It’s these not-so-good ones that have made being in love that much sweeter, and more appreciative of my husband. Sometimes in life we can’t get a clear picture of what we want until we first experience what we don’t want. This doesn’t mean that you need to seek perfection in a relationship. That will ...
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Since last week we were talking about Soul Level Love, I realized that I've never told the full story of how I met my husband. My full love story (or love journey, I should say) truly started back when I was 18 and met my first love in college. After four years of on-and-off, we finally split up and the years after that were a whirlwind of men, dating, relationships, guilt, sadness and ...
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I’m writing to you right now from the island of Sifnos, Greece. My new husband Peter and I got married on the island of Evvia two weeks ago. If you'd like to read more about our full love story you can do so here. We rented a villa off of AirBNB and had about 25 of our closest friends and immediate family stay with us. We knew that the villa would be remote, ...
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